Become a Better Listener
Dr. Mark Goulston is back by popular demand! In this episode of Negotiations Ninja, I chat with Dr. Goulston about becoming a better listener—which includes learning how to talk with people. Dr. Mark shares that there are four levels of talking to someone. You can talk over them, at them, to them, or with them. How do you know which you’re doing? What should you do instead? Learn more in this episode! Outline of This Episode [1:26] Dr. Mark Goulston is back by popular demand! [4:20] The HUVA exercise will change everything [8:34] What if you don’t add value to the conversation? [10:24] The persuasion cycle: don’t move too fast [12:50] The four levels of talking to someone [23:16] How to delegate effectively [27:46] How to get other people to excel emotionally [29:35] You must adjust your tone for each person [34:44] Learn more about Dr. Mark Goulston Resources & People Mentioned Warren Bennis: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Warren_Bennis Connect with Dr. Mark Goulston Dr. Mark’s Website: https://markgoulston.com/ LinkedIn Live Sessions: https://www.linkedin.com/search/results/all/?keywords=mark%20goulston%20no%20strings%20attached&origin=GLOBAL_SEARCH_HEADER Podcast: My Wakeup Call: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/my-wakeup-call-with-dr-mark-goulston/id1439752757 Just Listen: https://www.amazon.com/Just-Listen-Discover-Getting-Absolutely/dp/0814436471 Connect on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/markgoulston/ Follow on Twitter: https://twitter.com/MarkGoulston Connect With Mark Follow Negotiations Ninja on Twitter: @NegotiationPod Connect with Mark on LinkedIn Follow Negotiations Ninja on LinkedIn