E8: S3 Relationships should be built on “values” and not on “trauma bonding”
Learning lots about the relationships that I’ve had in my lifetime so far and understanding the reason why and how they were the way that they were, I realized that a lot of the time in society were taught that to find relationships It should be like a moth to a similar flame, but that can be really a dangerous cycle. Relationships should be built on core values of perpetuating safety and love in life. I recently learned about a coined term, “called reeling it in”. Where instead of just bonding with people over similarities of trauma. You don’t talk about those things until you understand each other’s core values:)