Ep. 28: Your Child Wants Connection...Promise.

Kids who have been hurt inside connection and relationship protect themselves from getting hurt again.This can leave us feeling that they don't want connection.Which leaves us feeling like we don't want to offer connection.  It starts to hurt too bad to keep offering something so vulnerable when we keep getting rejected.Maybe it would help to know that humans need connection to survive.  Your child may be acting like they don't need or want connection, but they do.In fact, the intensity with which they work to reject connection is the intensity with which they've been hurt in connection.It feels hopeless, sometimes (or much of the time) to love a person who rejects connection.It feels hopeless but it isn't hopeless.  In fact, in this episode I'll tell you what that hopeless really is.Don't forget to hit the subscribe button and add Parenting after Trauma to your podcast player!Then head over to robyngobbel.com/masterclass for a F R E E video series on the three questions we should all be asking ourselves when our kids are behaving in baffling, confusing, frustrating and overwhelming way.***Hey, if you listen to podcasts, you'll probably love listening to Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors on audiobook! Download it on Audible or wherever you get your audiobooks!*** :::::Want to pick Robyn's brain, hang out with her in Zoom meetings and a forum you can access in an app? Come join us in The Club!Are you a professional who wants to support families of kids with big, baffling behaviors? Then Being With is for you!Just need a little extra help? Head to RobynGobbel.com/FreeResources 

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Formerly the Parenting after Trauma podcast, internationally recognized children's mental health expert Robyn Gobbel decodes the most baffling behaviors for parents of kids with vulnerable nervous systems. If you're parenting a child who has experienced trauma or toxic stress or a child with a neuroimmune disorder, sensory processing, or other nervous system vulnerability, this show will let you know you are not alone. You can stop playing behavior whack-a-mole because Robyn offers you tools that actually work. You can become your child's expert, feel more confident as a parent, and bring more connection and clarity into your family.Educators, therapists, coaches and consultants- you too can learn all about what behavior really is and become more effective at helping the families you support. You can love your work again!