How to Talk, to Transform Relationships | POF127

We all know that communication is important but we aren’t ever taught exactly how to do it effectively.  The fact is, language matters and there are simple shifts in the way we talk that can get us closer to the results we want in our relationships and with our kids.   My guest is Krister Ungerbock, author of the book, 22 Talk Shifts - Tools to Transform Leadership in Business, in Partnership and in Life. In this episode, Krister is sharing his secrets to better communication.  We talk about: Why language matters and how to avoid “modal verbs” like, should, can, must, could and would What role empathy plays in creating better and more connected relationships How to communicate so you can change the behavior of your spouse or ex   Krister has given listeners access to two of his most game changing tools, #5 “On a scale of one to 10” and #13 “Lead People to Their Solutions, Not Yours”.  You can have access to these short and impactful videos via the Parent Toolbox.  Make sure to share them with your spouse or anyone who you want to have better communication with by visiting www.parent-toolbox.com   About Krister Ungerbock Krister Ungerböck is a leadership communication expert, former global tech CEO, keynote speaker, and author of the #1 Wall Street Journal bestseller, 22 Talk SHIFTs: Tools to Transform Leadership. At age 42, after building a $200 million software company, Krister founded The global Talk SHIFT movement to transform 100 million marriages, leaders and lives.   Contact information: Email: krister@krister.com Phone no: 636-288-6869   Social Media: Website: www.TalkSHIFT.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamkrister/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/meetkrister LinkedIn:  https://www.linkedin.com/in/kristeru/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/kristeru   Thanks for listening!   It means so much to me that you listened to my podcast! If you would like to purchase my book or other parenting resources, visit me at www.yellingcurebook.com   With this podcast, my intention is to build a community of parents that can have open and honest conversations about parenting without judgement or criticism. We have too much of that! I honor each parent and their path towards becoming the best parent they can be. My hope is to inspire more parents to consider the practice of Peaceful Parenting. If you know somebody who would benefit from this message, or would be an awesome addition to our community, please share it using the social media buttons on this page. Do you have some feedback or questions about this episode? Leave a note in the comment section below!   Subscribe to the podcast If you would like to get automatic updates of new podcast episodes, you can subscribe on the podcast app on your mobile device.   Leave a review I appreciate every bit of feedback to make this a value adding part of your day. Ratings and reviews from listeners not only help me improve, but also help others find me in their podcast app. If you have a minute, an honest review on iTunes goes a long way! Thank You!! To rate and review my show go to: https://ratethispodcast.com/parentingourfuture. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Parents! We CAN change the world, starting with the way we're parenting our future. Up to this point in history, children have been seen as less than and parented in a way that uses power over a child. Most of us were parented in this way but there is a shift in thinking about the way we raise our kids. Parents don’t feel good about using shame, blame, criticism, punishments, and even rewards, to get their kids to listen. Parents are wanting a different way because they know from their own childhoods this type of parenting hurts and leaves us with scars we take with us through our adulthood. Each one of my episodes is designed to help you navigate the difficult journey of parenting but in a way that is more peaceful and intentional. I’ll show you how to get your kids to listen and cooperate without yelling, punishments and rewards. I’ll show you how to understand your own feelings and those of your kids. My intention is to bring you to a place where you feel connected with your kids and yourself (we often get lost when we become parents!). Tune in weekly for all the inside tips, tools and tricks I teach my private clients to help you build the family you always wanted, and to become the parent you always envisioned you would be. I promise to provide you with fun and entertaining content that will leave you seeing your kids and your reactions in a whole new light! Please make sure to share the episodes that give you goosebumps, and leave you feeling inspired! I am always grateful for every person who subscribes, leaves a review and rates my podcast 5 stars.