POF04: Jedi Mind Tricks For Parents

Want to add some new superpowers into your parenting?  My conversation with Adele Anderson, Certified Natural Medical Practitioner and Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) Coach and Trainer will help you to understand how our emotions are attached to our physiology and how we can use that knowledge to get more cooperation from our kids!  About Adele Anderson DCH MNLP Coach Graduate: Vancouver Academy Homeopathy Anatomy & Physiology for Alternative Practitioners Trainer: Neuro-Linguistics & New Code practitioner Coach At 27 I found myself trapped upside-down, drowning in water in a crashed plane. As my life flashed before my eyes, I knew without a doubt, I was out of breath and out of time. That life experience forever changed my perception and beliefs; about the power of the mind; and that choice exists even in life’s most dire circumstances. Since that fateful day, I have made it my life mission. To understand the mind, conscious choice and empowerment. For 20+ years I have practiced Natural Medicine, Neuroscience: Neuro-Linguistics programming and now New Code. I work with ages 4-80; 1:1 and with groups. Or study online: communication as a Superpower Web: https://www.lifecoachadele.com  Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Iamyourdestinycoach  Instagram: @adelemanderson  Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/adeleandersondch Podcast: Mind Your Freedom  Twitter: https://twitter.com/NlpAdele  Email: yes@lifecoachadele.com  Text: 604-885-8236  Office: 604-885-0562   From the Podcast:   Personal trance words  Ask your child to describe three things they love to do and listen/write down the words they use to describe them.  You will hear some of the same words being used.  These words bypass the conscious thinking words.  If you want to make something seem fun that they don't normally enjoy; use those words because this is how they describe fun activities. Magic words Stimulate a person’s imagination.  “I don’t have to tell you because you already know” which bypasses the resistant critical thinking part of brain.  Use words that activate their senses; (think of a lemon) or move their mind through time: before, beyond, during & after. “You would be surprised if…” “I know you want to bee seen as a kid who is (responsible, athletic, liked)  “You probably already know what time I want you home tonight”   Command words are task or operational words describe, explain, compare Now, (Stop) Use the child’s first and middle name “I really don’t know what you want me to do when you say (shut up).  Imagine how things would change/what would happen if you didn’t say that to your mom?  OR “imagine what life would be like if we didn’t have these kinds of conversations” “I don’t know” – drops your child’s resistance Adding “Really” is even stronger than “I don’t know” – “I really don’t know” Add because, also a power word, and link it to something important to them.   “Imagine what it would be like to have harmony in our home because I know how much you love it when we are all happy and getting along” I don’t want to do my homework.  When talking to your child, try not to use “Don’t.”  Instead, use “imagine what school would be like if you studied for the exam and how easy it would be.  I know you want to be seen as a kid who excels.”   Power words and phrases  Raise your

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Parents! We CAN change the world, starting with the way we're parenting our future. Up to this point in history, children have been seen as less than and parented in a way that uses power over a child. Most of us were parented in this way but there is a shift in thinking about the way we raise our kids. Parents don’t feel good about using shame, blame, criticism, punishments, and even rewards, to get their kids to listen. Parents are wanting a different way because they know from their own childhoods this type of parenting hurts and leaves us with scars we take with us through our adulthood. Each one of my episodes is designed to help you navigate the difficult journey of parenting but in a way that is more peaceful and intentional. I’ll show you how to get your kids to listen and cooperate without yelling, punishments and rewards. I’ll show you how to understand your own feelings and those of your kids. My intention is to bring you to a place where you feel connected with your kids and yourself (we often get lost when we become parents!). Tune in weekly for all the inside tips, tools and tricks I teach my private clients to help you build the family you always wanted, and to become the parent you always envisioned you would be. I promise to provide you with fun and entertaining content that will leave you seeing your kids and your reactions in a whole new light! Please make sure to share the episodes that give you goosebumps, and leave you feeling inspired! I am always grateful for every person who subscribes, leaves a review and rates my podcast 5 stars.