236. The Real Reason Why Your Teen Won't Talk To You

Why won’t your teen confide in you, give you a straight answer, or do anything more than grunt or nod? I know it can feel frustrating when you’re trying to connect, and it just isn’t happening. Short answer: They don’t want to.   Long answer: They have a really good reason that's unique to them but not unique for human psychology. In this episode, I’m diving into the logical and predicatable ‘why’ behind your teen’s silence. From their perspective to common roadblocks we may unknowingly create, I’ll break down what’s going on and how you can start making shifts to open up communication again. In this episode, you’ll learn: - The main reasons your teen pulls away and stops talking - How to spot (and remove) the communication barriers that keep them from opening up - Simple, effective ways to rebuild trust and get your teen talking without forcing it - The common mistakes parents make when trying to get their teens to talk—and how to avoid them. If you’re done with the one-word answers and ready for real conversations, this episode is for you. Let’s get to the heart of what’s holding your teen back and take steps to bring connection back into your relationship. If you'd like the free "What to Say Instead Cheat Sheet" I mentioned in this episode, click HERE Want some extra help figuring out what’s going on with your teen? Book a free 30-minute consultation with me, and we’ll create a plan that works for your family. Book your call HERE.  

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