Episode 240: Why most relationships don’t last

If you’re having trouble keeping a promising relationship past the six-month mark, then this episode is for you. The truth is that most relationships don’t last, and the primary reason why they don’t is something that I call the ”crisis of disillusionment.” Almost all relationships are built upon an initial foundation of projected fantasy. Over time, disconfirming evidence to the contrary accumulates and the fantasy eventually is unable to withstand the assault of reality: this is the crisis of disillusionment. It’s inevitable, and it’s really when the relationship begins -- if it ever does. #dating #relationship #datingadvice

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