Challenging My Belief That Being Feminine is Weak
I've judged the feminine hard. For a long time I've viewed being "feminine" as being weak and offering no value to the world. This judgement stemmed from how I viewed my mum. She stopped nursing when my brother and I were born, to be there for us whilst my Dad worked. In my little head, I made up the belief that women have nothing much to give, whilst men go out there and get shit done. As a result, I hyper-idealised the masculine, putting all my eggs in doing, pushing, proving and working...