Crying After Sex, but Not the Happy Kind of Tears

Women, have you ever cried after having sex, but it wasn't the happy kind of tears?  Or husbands, have you ever seen your wife cry after sex?  Maybe you don't even know that she cried because she left the room and hid it from you.Either way, this happens more than we would like to think it does.  But why?  Why are we crying sad tears?  Why aren't we crying tears of happiness after supposedly making deep connections through our intimate experiences?There are a few reasons for this, but the main one has to do with our thoughts.  There are thoughts we bring to the experience, thoughts we have during it that take us out of the experience, and thoughts we have about it afterwards.  Listen in today to see what I did when this happened to me two years after I got married and how just one thought made all the difference.  

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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.