Pressure to Perform

Have you ever felt the pressure to perform when it comes the intimate experience?  This can easily come as a byproduct of the sexpectations that exist in the media we are exposed to and the world we live in today.When a wife feels the pressure to perform in order to be a "good wife," and when a husband feels the pressure to perform in order to be a "good lover," a high level of mental distress comes with it, and can interrupt the natural desire to be close and intimate.Stress is one of the biggest blockers to feeling a desire to be intimate.  So, understanding the pressure to perform will be extremely valuable.  Listen in on this episode to discover how having a conversation about a hypothetical experiment can really shed some light on the pressure to perform.

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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.