The Storm Is Coming: How Learning to Navigate the Sexual Storms Prepares Us to Navigate Life's Storms

Does intimacy always come easy or does it sometimes feel like you have to weather the storm?  While there are many beautiful and wonderful elements to intimacy in a marriage, there are also many traps that we can fall into.  These traps almost always show up in the way that we think about intimacy.Often, when I start working with a client and we begin the process of challegning their thinking about intimacy, the emotional floodgates open.  They can experience a wide variety of emotions, like regret when they think "I wish I had known some of this sooner" or even hope when they think "I can see how these thoughts make a big difference."When take on the challenge of diving into the difficulties that come with intimacy using a life coaching approach, we start to gain the skills that allow us to navigate the other storms in our lives as well.  Listen in on today's episode where we explore individual sexual responsibility, increasing confidence in both yourself and your spouse, and letting go of false expectations of how the sexual experience "should be" for your spouse. 

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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.