When the Wife Says "It's My Husband's Fault Our Sex Life Isn't Better"

Have you ever experienced the theme in your marriage that "it's my spouse 's fault that my sex life isn't better?"  If so, you are not alone.  While never intending to think this way on purpose, many spouses find themselves thinking this exact thought.The key factor to notice here is the word "intending."  MOST of our thoughts happen unintentionally, even when it comes to thoughts about intimacy, or the things we think get us "in the mood" or "out of the mood."  But what do we do when we have blaming thoughts and we don't know how to get out of that cycle?Listen in on today's episode to discover a few thought-hacks that will act as a way to intervene when we think heavy things about our spouse.  Using these new phrases will help us pause long enough to think more intentionally about how we want to move forward with our intimate experiences. 

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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.