WTF? Sex Isn't Easy?

Have you ever felt like the sexual component of your marriage is the one that seems the most difficult?  Back in the day, when we were dating people and imagining what marriage would be like, we probably imagined a romantic love life that came about easily as a result of the deep and enduring love that conquers all things.And then we got married, jumped into the world of sexual intimacy, and then wondered why it  somehow got complicated and frustrating.  This is a situation that happens all the time and is very normal to experience.  But what do we actually do about it?Listen in on today's episode where we will dive into why intimacy is difficult, challenging the concept that it's supposed to be "easy," and a few simple ways to start thinking about it differently.  Pay attention to how the concept of time is involved as we point out the impact it has on intimacy. 

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It can be really hard to fix a marriage when you feel broken inside. It can be a challenge to try to meet your spouse's needs when your own are not being met or even fully understood. If you grew up religious or with high moral standards, this can add even more stress to the equation. This is a podcast that talks about the many challenges in marriage, and yes, even intimacy, and how they are effecting you on a personal level. Each week we take a deep dive into what is keeping your foot on the brakes when it comes to your arousal levels and what drives you to step on the accelerator. As your certified Life Coach, we will explore many fascinating topics, such as the different styles of arousal, the many types of intimacy, how blame effects our mood, the reasons we engage in these recreational shenanigans in the first place, and how life coaching skills get us through it all.