Vulnerability Not Allowed | #093

<p>Louie’s new therapist introduced him to Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) — and it’s already getting personal.</p><p>In what early listeners have called our "most beautiful episode yet"... Louie brings EFT-style <em>attachment questions</em> to the pod, exploring what he and Michael learned from their families about vulnerability, emotional safety, and connection. They reflect on how their mothers shaped their ability (or inability) to express feelings, the emotional roles they were expected to play, and what it means to unlearn emotional avoidance as adults.</p><p>If you’ve ever asked yourself <em>“Why is vulnerability so hard for me?”</em> — this one’s for you.</p><p>topics: emotionally focused therapy, EFT, therapy podcast, attachment styles, emotional vulnerability, childhood trauma, family dynamics, inner child healing, men’s mental health, emotional avoidance, healing relationships, therapy questions, how to be vulnerable, funny therapy podcast</p><br><p>BetterHelp:</p><p>If you’re struggling, consider therapy with our sponsor. Visit <a href="https://betterhelp.com/secondhandtherapy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://betterhelp.com/secondhandtherapy</a> for a discount on your first month of therapy..</p><p>If you have questions about the brand relating to how the therapists are credentialed, their privacy policy, or therapist compensation, here is an overview written by the YouTube creators behind the channel Cinema Therapy that goes into these topics: <a href="https://www.reddit.com/r/cinema_therapy/comments/1dpriql/addressing_the_betterhelp_concerns_headon_deep/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">https://www.reddit.com/r/cinema_therapy/comments/1dpriql/addressing_the_betterhelp_concerns_headon_deep/</a></p><br><p>Support the pod:</p><p> PATREON - <a href="http://patreon.com/secondhandtherapypod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Join Patreon for Exclusives</a></p><p> MERCH - <a href="http://secondhandtherapypod.com" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">Shop Merch</a></p><br><p> Follow us here: </p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/secondhandtherapypod</a></p><p><a href="http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://tiktok.com/@secondhandtherapypod</a></p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/itsloubear" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/itsloubear</a></p><p><a href="http://instagram.com/malonecomedy" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">http://instagram.com/malonecomedy</a></p><br><p> Contact us:</p><p><a href="https://gmail.com/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">secondhandtherapypod@gmail.com</a></p><p><a href="https://tel:818/" rel="noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">818-850-2448</a></p><p> PO BOX 230595, Las Vegas, NV 89105</p><hr><p style='color:grey; font-size:0.75em;'> Hosted on Acast. See <a style='color:grey;' target='_blank' rel='noopener noreferrer' href='https://acast.com/privacy'>acast.com/privacy</a> for more information.</p>

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Secondhand Therapy is a funny, honest mental health podcast where two unlicensed best friends unpack their weekly therapy sessions.Join Louie Paoletti and Michael Malone as they explore anxiety, ADHD, grief, masculinity, and emotional growth—with humor, heart, and total transparency. Each episode blends raw self-reflection with real time takes on therapy, trauma, relationships, and the messy process of healing.It’s real talk about mental health in the modern world, and why personal growth is so damn hard.