Flirting is a Trauma Response

In this eye-opening episode of the Secret Life Podcast, Brianne Davis-Gantt tackles the controversial and often misunderstood topic of flirting as a trauma response. Contrary to popular belief that flirting is healthy and beneficial for mental health, Brianne argues that it is a way to fill an emptiness within oneself by taking energy from others. Drawing from her personal experiences and extensive trauma work, she explains how flirting can be a form of energy vampirism, where one seeks validation and attention to escape their own discomfort. Brianne shares candid stories from her own life, including her year-long journey of abstaining from flirting to heal her trauma responses. She emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and urges listeners to examine their motives behind flirting. Is it a genuine connection or a way to escape personal insecurities? Tune in for a thought-provoking discussion that challenges conventional wisdom and offers a path towards a more authentic and self-sufficient existence. 🔑 Episode Keywords Flirting, Trauma Response, Energy Vampirism, Validation, Self-Awareness, Personal Growth, Brianne Davis-Gantt, Secret Life Podcast, Inner Child Work, Shadow Work, Attachment Style, Self-Healing (00:00) Welcome to the Secret Life podcast. Today I'm pulling back the curtains of human secrets (01:36) Flirting is a trauma response, and many people say it's healthy (08:12) I stopped flirting for six months because it was too needy (15:30) Thanks for listening to Secret Life podcast. Please subscribe, rate, share _____ If you or anyone you know is struggling with addiction, depression, trauma, sexual abuse or feeling overwhelmed, we've compiled a list of resources at https://secretlifepodcast.com. _____ Secret Life Podcast's episodes include topics addressing addiction and recovery, mental health, alcoholism, drug addiction, sex addiction, love addiction, OCD, ADHD, dyslexia, eating disorders, debt & money issues, anorexia, depression, shoplifting,  molestation, sexual assault, trauma, relationships, self-love, friendships, community, secrets, self-care, courage, freedom, and happiness. ______ 
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Tell me your secret, I'll tell you mine — true confessions of love, sex, money, relationships, addictions, and hidden taboo topics that are often hilarious, uplifting, and hopeful. Hosted by best-selling author, actress, and coach Brianne Davis, the podcast offers a mix of guest interviews and topic-specific discussions. Every Monday, listeners are invited to join Brianne as she pulls back the curtain and explores the how, what, when, where, and why of various subjects. Some episodes feature guests sharing their own secrets and stories, while in others Brianne takes a deep dive into a specific topic. Whether laughing, crying, or feeling inspired, each episode offers a revealing journey into the human experience. Brianne's best-selling book, Secret Life of a Hollywood Sex & Love Addict, a roman à clef novel based on a decade in recovery (with a dash of creative license), was launched in February 2021. To share a secret or be a guest on the show, email secretlifepodcast@icloud.com or visit www.secretlifepodcast.com.