Lose/Lose Game - 1 of 4
Living as a Victim. What is it like when a person lives their life as a victim to life? aka Victim Mentality or “I’m Not in Charge Mentality You may not always see it, you may deny it, but if you had a group of really good friends who were brave enough to give you some really valuable feedback, you might begin to see areas where you are off track When you operate your life from the point of view that you are not in charge (even though you may think you are) you’re living as a sufferer… to people, events, and circumstances in your life. Most people that I’ve met will NEVER admit they operate as a victim I’m talking about being a victim in terms of: Honoring your word to yourself Your self-discipline Keeping your word to others Certain people set off your emotions You get bored easily You’re easily frustrated You feel people are holding you back You never enough time You’re not making progress in your life You’re unable to quit unhealthy habits Someone cuts you off in traffic and it pisses you off Your manager gives you a bad performance review and you think it’s unfair A friend raises their voice and you get offended You get overcharged for a medical procedure and you get pissed I'm going to talk about the payoff of living your life as a victim Meaning, what do you get from doing it? You definitely get a payoff otherwise you wouldn’t do it. I’m also going to talk about the ripoff – the price you pay for being a victim How victim mentality affects the quality of your physical and mental life When you come from the point of view that you are not in charge or don’t have control of your life circumstance, you feel like a victim (frauded, swindled, scammed, tricked, etc) and how when you feel ripped off, you When you come from being a victim, how do you enter into life? Like a puppet on a string – pulled in every direction by everyone in your life. When you are a victim you live in a state of fear – this fear I call uncertainty. Stay tuned for Part 2 of 4 in this series ***** The ultimate gift you can give to the world is to show you are constantly evolving. Otherwise, what’s the point? ~ Domenic Certa email: domeniccerta@gmail.com Courses, Books & Free Downloads https://omnil.ink/domeniccerta Domenic Certa Bio: Domenic is a serial entrepreneur who has used his life starting, building and selling his businesses. He specialized in self-achievement strategies from personal communication to spiritual evolution. He is author of over 15 books, hundreds of training courses and is the Managing Director of the Self Achievement Network. He works on custom projects and is available for training and speaking engagements upon request.