Ep. 110: STUDENT SPOTLIGHT Reclaiming Your Feminine Power: Breaking Free from Hyper-Independence
In this episode of Shadow Work, WTF?, Caitlin and support coach Lurinda sit down with Mads, a Shadow Alchemy Certification student whose journey from sceptical single mum to shadow work coach reveals the transformative power of embracing vulnerability. What started as judgment toward Lurinda's career shift eventually led Mads to her own breakthrough moment, showing how our strongest resistance often points directly to our deepest healing. This episode dives into the messy reality of feminine and masculine energies, the freedom that comes from surrendering control, and how shadow work creates profound shifts beyond just mindset.This episode is for you if:You pride yourself on being "hyper-independent" but secretly feel exhausted from doing it allYou've tried traditional therapy but still feel stuck in the same patternsYou're curious about shadow work but have been skeptical or resistant to trying itYou're a coach who wants to understand how to create deeper, more lasting transformations for clientsWhat we'll cover:Why our harshest judgments of others always reveal our own shadowsThe misconceptions about feminine/masculine energy and how they impact our ability to receive supportHow shadow work differs from traditional talk therapy in creating rapid transformationThe real responsibility that comes with being a transformational coach and why proper training mattersKey Points and Timestamps:00:00:00 - Introduction and WelcomeCaitlin introduces Mads, with Lurinda sharing how they connected and Mads' inspiring journey to Shadow Alchemy.05:29:00 - The Transformational First SessionMads shares the powerful shadow work session that changed everything, allowing her to embrace her feminine energy and open up to receiving support.12:21:00 - The Feminine-Masculine ConversationA nuanced discussion about what feminine and masculine energies actually mean beyond societal gender roles and gender norms.25:15:00 - Motherhood and Slowing DownExploring how motherhood created a craving for connection and presence despite societal pressure to "do it all."30:05:00 - Confronting Judgment as ShadowMads reveals how her judgment of Lurinda's career shift was actually jealousy of her boldness and confidence.41:45:00 - Beyond Talk TherapyMads discusses the limitations of traditional therapy compared to the action-oriented transformation of shadow work.48:36:00 - The Ethical Responsibility of CoachesAn important conversation about safety, trauma, and the responsibility coaches have when doing transformational work.Resources Mentioned:Shadow Alchemy Coaching Academy: @shadowalchemycoachingacademyConnect with Mads on Instagram: @madsleonard__Follow Lurinda: @perspectivebylurindaConnect with Us:Loved this episode? Screenshot it, share it, and tag us with your biggest takeaway. Your journey from resistance to transformation might be just what someone else needs to hear today.P.S. If you've been curious about shadow work but something's been holding you back, this is your sign. The transformation you're resisting is usually exactly what you need. Visit shadowalchemycoaching.com to explore certification or book a session with one of our coaches.