Britain’s Oldest Dominatrix: “It’s far more than whips and chains…”

Today, we're stepping into the world of BDSM...We’re joined by the brilliant Sherry Lever, who is known professionally as Mistress Sofia. She is a 74-year-old grandmother who just so happens to be Britain’s oldest professional dominatrix.From the outside, the world of BDSM might seem intimidating… and we certainly had a lot to learn. But Sherry breaks down the myths for us, highlighting the importance of communication, consent and boundaries within her work, to reveal the more emotional side of being a dominatrix.She even introduced us to a very different kind of CBT (and it’s not the type your therapist offers...)As self-confessed members of the vanilla population, we came away from this conversation with our eyes opened and our assumptions challenged - we hope you find it as fascinating as we did!Follow @sherry_lever_ on Instagram You can read more about Sherry’s work at www.mistress-sofia.co.uk Sherry’s book From “The Mrs” to Dominatrix - is available now digitally and as an audiobookIf you'd like to get in touch you can email us on shouldideletethatpod@gmail.com  JOIN US FOR OUR BIGGEST LIVE SHOW EVER! We’re heading to Edinburgh for our biggest live show ever. We’ll be taking over the iconic Usher Hall for one night only on 3rd September. Head to SIDTLive.com for more information and to purchase tickets.Follow us on Instagram:@shouldideletethat@em_clarkson@alexlight_ldnShould I Delete That is produced by Faye LawrenceStudio Manager: Dex RoyVideo Editor: Celia GomezSocial Media Manager: Sarah EnglishMusic: Alex Andrew Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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In Should I Delete That?, Alex Light and Em Clarkson want to explore the nuance that is often left out of the polarising conversations that take place on social media. Join them as they dive deep into the grey area, talk to experts, tackle shame and have a laugh along the way…OUR BIGGEST EVER LIVE SHOW IS COMING TO EDINBURGH ON 3RD SEPTEMBER 2025! For tickets and more information head to SIDTlive.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.