Side In My DMs

Sides define themselves as neither top nor bottom, preferring non-penetrative practices to buttstuff. In this episode, Gabe and Chris go deep with the “Messiah of Masturbation”, BATEBANDIT XL, about why he identifies as both a side and a bator, and why he created the BBXL Bate Bros, an international organization that holds online and in-person events for Black and Brown masturbation enthusiasts. Then our hosts learn all about what led BATEBANDIT XL to start making horny (and hot AF) hip-hop music chronicling his wild life as a bator. Plus, a special Side edition of “Pump or Dump?”   Follow Sniffies' Cruising Confessions: cruisingconfessions.com   Try Sniffies: sniffies.com   Follow Sniffies on Social: Instagram: instagram.com/sniffiesapp X: x.com/sniffiesapp TikTik: tiktok.com/@sniffiesapp   Follow the hosts: Gabe Gonzalez: instagram.com/gaybonez Chris Patterson-Rosso: instagram.com/cprgivesyoulife   Guests featured in this episode:   BATEBANDIT XL x.com/batebanditxl   BBXL BATE BROS bbxlbatebros.com/See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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Sniffies’ Cruising Confessions is back for a second season — and this time, we’re going deeper. Season 2 brings a wider range of voices, stories, and perspectives on queer sex and cruising. Hosts Gabe and Chris are diving into trending topics, offering practical advice, and sitting down with a rotating cast of queer celebs and sexperts for conversations that are equal parts hilarious, heartfelt, and hot. This year, the show moves beyond NYC to explore what cruising looks like in international cities and off the beaten path, highlighting the diversity of queer experiences. Along the way, they’re also tackling serious topics to help keep the Sniffies community safe — from harm reduction and chemsex education to the latest in PrEP and protection, plus tips for cruising smart in a shifting political landscape. And for the first time ever, the podcast opens the floor to you. Listeners can now call in and share their wildest cruising stories, which Gabe and Chris will react to in a brand-new segment at the end of each episode. More stories. More sex. More confessions. Season 2 starts now — just push play.