Selective Mediocrity

Our To-Do lists are never-ending, sure. But it's neither realistic nor fair to assume we can excel in every arena.  Enter selective mediocrity, a.k.a. that conscious choice to let some stuff go.  We simply can't do it all, and selective mediocrity enables us to give our whole selves to the tasks and goals that really matter. On today's show: A conversation with Dr. Whitney Casares about *actually* lowering our expectations (not just pretending we lowered them!) and preserving our precious time and energy.   Here's a preview: [3:30] Feel like you're doing it all? Here are the 9 areas that take up the majority of a woman's time and energy [9:30] We moms aren't broken. The system is broken! [21:00] How do you decide when and where to be 'selectively mediocre'? [24:00] Anxiety loves perfection because anxiety loves control. Musings on being OK with letting some things go [28:00] Women have been conditioned to put others' needs ahead of their own. Time to enact self-boundaries!   Resources mentioned: Doing It All: Stop Over-Functioning and Become the Mom and Person You're Meant to Be   This show is listener-supported. Thank you for supporting! Join our (free!) Facebook community here. Find your tribe. Sustainable Minimalists are on Facebook, Instagram + Youtube @sustainableminimalists Say hello! MamaMinimalistBoston@gmail.com.

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Creating eco-minimalist, non-toxic homes (without the extra work). Although minimalism has experienced a rebirth in recent years, the "less is more" movement has been around for centuries. Yet today's minimalist influencers have resurrected minimalism with a decidedly consumerist spin, as modern minimalism is nearly synonymous with decluttering. While there's a lot of chatter about tidying, it's radio silence and crickets when it comes to sustainability. The result? Aspiring minimalists find themselves on an endless hamster wheel of buying, decluttering, buying more, and purging again. Overemphasizing decluttering and underemphasizing the reasons why we overbuy in the first place is thoroughly inconsistent with slow living as a movement; consumption without intention is terrible for the planet, too. Your host, Stephanie Seferian, is a stay-at-home/podcast-from-home mom and author who believes that minimalism, eco-friendliness, and non-toxic living are intrinsically intertwined. She's here to explore the topics of conscious consumerism, sustainability, and environmentally-friendly parenting practices with like-minded women; she's here, too, to show you how to curate eco-friendly, decluttered homes (without the extra work).