why does asking for your needs make it feel disingenuous

Do you avoid asking for your needs in a relationship or friendship because then it feels like they're only doing it because you asked and not because the wanted to? Do you hate that you feel that way? Do you wish you could be more open to letting people grow for you? In this episode, we talk about the difficulty of accepting that someone is willing to try for you, why things aren't as black and white as they seem, and how to feel better about asking for your needs in relationships. Enjoy!

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Two grownkids documenting our 20s one week at a time! Join us (gael & kayla) as we experience life, make mistakes, and have fun while living in a big city. Each episode covers a time we tried something new, messed up, or had a questionable experience. Whether you’re going through heartbreak, moving out for the first time, or figuring out your career, we’re right there with you. This is for everyone that feels like a grownkid, no matter how old you are. New episodes every Thursday! SOCIAL LINKS: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/grownk1d/ TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@grownkid LA Social Club: https://form.typeform.com/to/eBSho4lE About Our Partners: GrownKid is made in partnership with Joy Coalition where purpose driven content meets powerful storytelling. From 13 reasons Why to unprisoned, Joy Coalition projects are made to bridge generations and drive groundbreaking conversations. Before GrownKid came Teenager Therapy. If you're looking for archived TT episodes, feel free to scroll down and watch us document our life from 15 to 21 years old.