263: Robin Dreeke | Spy Catcher

"I know not every mom is a secret KGB spy, but every mom has this whole other life. Every dad and every person has this whole other life." -Keri Russell Robin Dreeke is an author, teacher of social engineering (sometimes with The Art of Charm's Jordan Harbinger) and the chief of the Behavioral Analysis Program at the FBI. Opinions and concepts expressed on this show are his own and not that of the FBI (just to be EXTRA clear on that). Today, we'll discuss: -Pretty much nothing about being the chief spy catcher for the FBI ...and a lot about how to build trust and rapport -How to get paranoid/sketchy people to trust you -How to refrain from judging others and why this is so powerful -Attaining our goals with people in the face of our own emotional resistance -How to build tolerance of others avoid becoming collateral damage of other people’s insecurities. You’ll also like: The Art of Charm Toolbox Best of The Art of Charm Podcast     HELP US SPREAD THE WORD!   If you dug this episode, please subscribe in iTunes and write us a review!  This is what helps us stand out from all the fluff out there.   Ways to subscribe to The Art of Charm   Click here to subscribe via iTunes Click here to subscribe via RSS You can also subscribe via Stitcher   FEEDBACK + PROMOTION   Hit us up with your comments and guest suggestions. We read EVERYTHING.   Download the FREE AoC app for iPhone Email jordanh@theartofcharm.com Give us a call at 888.413.7177   Stay Charming!

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