Episode 23: Fear and trust
In this week's episode, we talk about Fear and Trust. We discuss how we relate to the world and the impact of that on our children. We invite you to explore whether we choose trust and love or whether default to negativity and fear. [1.20] Why trust is the theme of parenting [5:15] How fear can drive parenting and its imprint on children [7.50] Our own imprints around the world and safety [9.00] Marion's experience of terror and fear [10.25] How we can heal from imprints of negativity or pain [13.00] Practical fears and how they can help us grow [17.00] Trusting trauma and healing [22.55] Healing and Aware Parenting. [24.30] Trusting the world and the lens we look through. [29.00] Everything is an Opportunity [31.40] 3 different mechanisms of healing [34.05] Listening to the body [37.00] What would trust look like? [38.10] External and Internal experiences [41.45] Doing the work for our children [43.00] How fear can become our greatest gifts [49.20 ] Best tips for having these conversations with your children. This week’s invitation: 1. What would you like to hear when Fear turns up for you? 2. Be curious around what messages you are giving to your child. What are the Imprints? Resources: Aletha Solter - Attachment Play Book Marions course - http://www.marionrose.net/online-courses/attachment-play-course/ Larry Cohen - The opposite of Worry (book) Eric Erikson - https://www.simplypsychology.org/Erik-Erikson.html As always, you can head over to the Aware Parenting Podcast Facebook group and join in the discussion, or you’ll find us on Instagram @theawareparentingpodcast You can find Marion at marionrose.net and Lael at laelstone.com.au And if you haven’t already, make sure you subscribe to the podcast so we can pop into your podcast feed. Sending you much love, compassion and grace in your parenting journey. x Lael and Marion