EP91: Why Giving Your Children All The Things You Never Had Backfires

Did you parent from the “I gave them everything **I** did not have growing up!” perspective? Your child is not you.  What is the WHY behind how we parented / are parenting? Spite is a terrible motivator. How do we learn to be curious?  Why parenting is best not approached by the “one size fits all” perspective. In this episode Kreed & AC discuss why parenting from the “But I gave them everything I never had” approach generally backfires along with the importance and value of curiosity when it comes to parenting - then and now.. —---------- 2023 Moving Beyond Family Struggles Summit - registration link ⁠https://www.2023movingbeyondfamilystruggles.com/copy-of-2022-summitzoz0vwni?affiliate_id=4162271⁠ http://www.TheEstrangedHeart.comEmail Kreed at: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Coaching with Kreed - $100 USD (55 minute session)Email Kreed at TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Coaching with Kreed and AC - $175 USD (55 minute session)Email Kreed at TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com Don’t forget to check out AC’s podcast, In The Blood. It’s available on all major podcast platforms. In The Blood podcast--------------- Facebook Support Group for estranged moms: facilitated by Kreed: https://www.facebook.com/groups/estrangedmotherssupportgroup Facebook Discussion Group for estranged parents AND estranged adult children (from different families) facilitated by Kreed and AC - email for application: TheEstrangedHeart@gmail.com If you wish to become a financial supporter of the podcast and Kreed's work with estranged parents & adult children:  https://www.anchor.fm/theestrangedheart/support https://www.buymeacoffee.com/kreedrevere  (one time donation)

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