173. Unraveling the Victim, Villain, Hero Loop: Tah and Kole Whitty of The Condor Approach

Tah and Kole Whitty, founders of The Condor Approach, unpack what they call the Oppression Trap Triangle—victim, villain, and hero—showing how these unconscious roles sustain disconnection and fuel inner conflict. We explore the ways victimhood can shape identity, highlighting the importance of reclaiming authorship and embracing grief as a necessary, transformative part of the healing journey.

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We grew up in a world we didn’t create. And one idea after the next—whether it was culture or society—we were told how to look, how to feel, and who to be. We were told that if we checked off the “right” boxes (think: career, car, money), we’d feel good, we’d be whole, and—naturally—we’d be set. But, turns out, there’s more to the story. On The Great Unlearn, Cal dives into unlearning and questioning what the world taught us, and—in the process—how to be the truest version of yourself, minus the bullshit. Whether it’s figuring out how to navigate a relationship, dealing with your emotions, diving into spirituality, or just feeling comfortable in your own skin, Cal and friends navigate the choppy waters of what it really takes to unlearn all the ideas we took for granted, and how to be the best version of what, sometimes, can be so hard to be: yourself.