132 Erin LoPorto: Why Telling Your Child, “Don’t Worry” Doesn’t Help

Hey Friends~  Your Feelings are a message from your body.  It’s the same for your kids.   How do you attune to your child’s feelings - instead of telling them not to feel as they do?   Do quickly tell your child how to behave?  (“Don’t worry.”  “Settle down.”  or “You don’t need to feel that way.”)  This kind of response backfires in relationships   Or  Do you reflect back to them how they are feeling?  This is not an easy skill.  However, it is a skill that is learnable!   Join the FREE Interactive Webinar! May 13, 2024  10 AM CST   https://dinalynnr.systeme.io/workshop-free-2ddd5182   Always cheering you on! Dinalynn   CONTACT the Host, Dinalynn:  hello@thelanguageofplay.com   ABOUT THE GUEST:     Erin LoPorto is a somatic well-being and intimacy coach and the creator of the Embodied Freedom Formula for transformation and healing. After her own recovery, she studied with experts in yoga and somatic therapy, energy healing, bodywork, meditation, and trauma. She's been coaching since 2011 with a focus on trauma, eating disorders, and relationships. She brings a playful, intuitive, and compassionate spirit as she speaks on topics of self-love, self-care, and the importance of embodiment. CONTACT THE GUEST:   erinloporto@gmail.com www.erinloporto.com   RESOURCES from The Language Of Play Join the FREE Interactive Webinar! May 13, 2024  10 AM CST   https://dinalynnr.systeme.io/workshop-free-2ddd5182 Sign up for my newsletter! https://tinyurl.com/vkvspbx4 Sign up for FREE 21 Days of Encouragement in your inbox ! https://tinyurl.com/5n8f4att Join my new FREE Facebook Community : https://tinyurl.com/4pe8m9za Have Questions about Working together?  Sign up for a 15 min "Let's Meet Session" on zoom!  https://tinyurl.com/5xbhkr6x For Speaking Engagements or For 1:1 or Group Parent Coaching (virtual or live), contact me at hello@thelanguageofplay.com   If You Liked This Episode, You Will Want To Listen To These Episodes:  06 Helping Kids Share Thoughts, Feelings and Ideas 36 Tantrum Vs Meltdown. Know the Difference and Respond Effectively 102 Top 4 Mistakes Parents Make And How to Correct Them! 114 Time IN or Time Out? EXPERT: KAREN HALL helps us support our kids while not taking on their Big Feelings 121 Sherry Darden: Think Your Child Expresses Feelings The Same As You? Ways to Notice Your Child’s Communication Patterns    

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Getting Kids to Listen, Happy Home, Speech Therapy, Family Connection, Communication with Kids, Coaching Are you tired of repeating yourself with your children or wonder why they don’t listen? Are you frustrated that your kids argue, whine or debate with you? Are you afraid you are doing the wrong thing to manage behavior but you are not sure what to do? Hey parents, you don’t need to stay overwhelmed, exhausted, and triggered by the fuss. In this podcast, you will find solutions to …get kids to listen better with clear communication and boundaries that benefit kids. All while enhancing your relationships! My mission is to help puzzled, busy, worried parents read their child’s behavior as communication. When we understand what they are communicating, WE start to communicate differently. This is true of children with normal language development, children in dual language homes, and children with language delay. When your Language is Playful, you use words that allow for discovery, creativity, curiosity and exploration, which empowers and encourages. Connection is born. Connected kids are courageous and listen better. Connected kids have fewer meltdowns. Listen in to learn strategies for teaching and listening so that your child feels seen and heard and you build resiliency. Hello, my name is Dinalynn Rosenbush, mom, grandma, Speech Language Pathologist of over 25 years. I’ve worked with hundreds of children with speech & language delays and personally, navigated divorce and single parenting. Through training and my own struggles, I learned to use specific language in specific ways to build connection. I learned to teach AND USE better communication. Our communication is not only our words, but it is the feeling our children have when we speak with them. Let’s create a home where exploration is welcomed, mistakes are stepping stones, and practice is expected. Your kids know you are on their team. And, eventually, they will join your team! Because, what works for speech and language disabled children, simply works! I believe all parents should have access to these skills, not just specialists. It is my hope to give small nuggets of information in each episode to build your communication toolbox. So, if you are ready to build deep, meaningful connection AND create a more peaceful, productive and happy home. Listen in! Let’s interrupt the way you have been parenting. so that you CAN BECOME THE PARENT you WANT to be. I’m glad you are here! Dinalynn CONTACT: hello@thelanguageofplay.com