47 EXPERT: Jaci Finneman: Helping Kids Make Apology with the “Make It Right” Technique

Welcome back, Parents!   Today, Jaci Finneman of No Problem Parenting is joining me for a conversation!  Our topics are about her books (found in links below), making REPAIRS after conflict, your expertise as a parent, and so much more.  Thank you for listening! You will be glad you did!  Parents, WE are Cheering you on!  Dinalynn  Contact Dinalynn:  hello@thelanguageofplay.com Booking Link for a 15-minute "Let’s Meet" Conversation:  https://calendly.com/hello-play/let-s-meet-session   Today's Guest:  JACI FINNEMAN    Jaci is a Parent Coach & Strategist, Podcast Host, Speaker and Author.  With over 50,000 hours of experience, her success with parents and children affected by trauma and mental health diagnosis inspired her to broaden her reach and share her 30+ years of experience with parents facing ANY level of resistance and behavior issues in their home, diagnosis or not! No-Problem Parenting™ teaches parents to.1) Seek First to Understand - why is my child behaving the way they are and why am I responding (or reacting) the way I am2) Prepare for the Worst - Preparing for the "worst" behavior helps parents respond vs react3) Change the Conversation – Lead with empathy and give your kids conditional praise they can believe in before pouring on unconditional praise.Become the Confident Leader Your Kids Crave You To Be!Jaci’s down-to-earth, authentic and relatable personality adds light, hope, and clarity to her clients.  She is 1 of 100 first cousins and enjoys all things baseball, hockey - and dirt. Jaci believes dirt matters! Whether she's getting full of dirt on a muddy 4-wheeling trail or helping you to clean up the "dirt" in your relationships - Jaci believes the outcome and experiences are worth the mess!   LINKS to Mentioned Resources and Episodes: Ep 115 on No Problem Parenting podcast:  Jaci and Dinalynn's conversation about the Language we use with kids to help them listen: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/no-problem-parenting-how-to-become-the-confident/id1563041805?i=1000592907989 Here is Jaci’s website. Click the BOOK tab for book purchase:  https://www.noproblemparents.com/ Free from Jaci:   MAKE IT RIGHT TECHNIQUE DOWNLOAD Link for Vera Thomas Show:  https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dSxqkau1pkk

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Getting Kids to Listen, Happy Home, Speech Therapy, Family Connection, Communication with Kids, Coaching Are you tired of repeating yourself with your children or wonder why they don’t listen? Are you frustrated that your kids argue, whine or debate with you? Are you afraid you are doing the wrong thing to manage behavior but you are not sure what to do? Hey parents, you don’t need to stay overwhelmed, exhausted, and triggered by the fuss. In this podcast, you will find solutions to …get kids to listen better with clear communication and boundaries that benefit kids. All while enhancing your relationships! My mission is to help puzzled, busy, worried parents read their child’s behavior as communication. When we understand what they are communicating, WE start to communicate differently. This is true of children with normal language development, children in dual language homes, and children with language delay. When your Language is Playful, you use words that allow for discovery, creativity, curiosity and exploration, which empowers and encourages. Connection is born. Connected kids are courageous and listen better. Connected kids have fewer meltdowns. Listen in to learn strategies for teaching and listening so that your child feels seen and heard and you build resiliency. Hello, my name is Dinalynn Rosenbush, mom, grandma, Speech Language Pathologist of over 25 years. I’ve worked with hundreds of children with speech & language delays and personally, navigated divorce and single parenting. Through training and my own struggles, I learned to use specific language in specific ways to build connection. I learned to teach AND USE better communication. Our communication is not only our words, but it is the feeling our children have when we speak with them. Let’s create a home where exploration is welcomed, mistakes are stepping stones, and practice is expected. Your kids know you are on their team. And, eventually, they will join your team! Because, what works for speech and language disabled children, simply works! I believe all parents should have access to these skills, not just specialists. It is my hope to give small nuggets of information in each episode to build your communication toolbox. So, if you are ready to build deep, meaningful connection AND create a more peaceful, productive and happy home. Listen in! Let’s interrupt the way you have been parenting. so that you CAN BECOME THE PARENT you WANT to be. I’m glad you are here! Dinalynn CONTACT: hello@thelanguageofplay.com