TPJ 68: Who's to Blame for the Family Fights?
There’s a mindset that has permeated our culture and it’s causing a lot of damage. It ruins our homes and families, our relationships, and even entire communities. Which mindset? Blaming. Let’s discuss.
[03:32] The blaming mindset is rampant in our culture.
[08:41] How does blaming help?
[09:49] How a blaming mindset affects our homes.
[10:29] Blame triggers defensiveness.
[11:53] Blaming over-simplifies a problem.
[14:13] Blame makes people deflect.
[16:34] Instead, let's develop a solution mindset.
[20:19] Say “We don't blame in this family.”
[21:17] Empathize
When we empathize with people and focus on finding solutions together, we’ll find that there’s opportunity for growth and learning, and it’ll strengthen relationships instead of tear them apart.
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