TPJ 73: HOMESCHOOLING VS PUBLIC SCHOOLING: A Guide for Parents
I know there can be a lot of anxiety and indecision when it comes to the topic of school vs. homeschool. How do you know which way to go? What if I try it and it doesn’t work? What if I ruin my kids??
In this episode I’m going to walk you through the decision making process and take you from indecision to clarity.
[10:42] “The best use of imagination is creativity. The worst use of imagination is anxiety.” Deepak Chopra
[11:58] 1. Our role is to choose the environment in which our children educate themselves.
[14:04] 2. Our choices aren't right for everyone. They're only right for our own families.
[16:27] 3. Nothing is set in stone. We can make changes if something doesn't feel right.
[18:40] Use this matrix & process to help you make a decision.
[20:31] Education
[22:13] Time
[23:31] Cost
[24:39] Reliability
[26:16] Method
[28:01] Socialization
[31:50] Autonomy
[33:22] Health
[34:17] Relationships
[35:58] Intuition
[36:45] Add in any additional considerations for your unique situation.
[41:02] If you're going to homeschool, work on mindset before you go out and buy all the awesome stuff.
[42:12] Learning can only be effective when you and your child feel good about it.
Q&A:
[49:29] I want to homeschool, but my spouse thinks I'll ruin our kids.
[51:47] How old were your (Avital's) kids when you started using your Focus Time approach?
[53:03] What is a "hybrid model"?
[54:25] How do I homeschool a preschooler and still work 8 hours from home?
[56:07] What homeschool system do you recommend for non-English speakers?
[56:43] My spouse thinks socialization will suffer if we homeschool.
[58:22] I'm not a structured person and already struggle with routines...I fear it may be a little too much.
[59:55] What time are the Q&A sessions if I join Focus Time?
[49:29] I want to homeschool, but my spouse thinks I'll ruin our kids.
[51:47] How old were your (Avital's) kids when you started using your Focus Time approach?
[53:03] What is a "hybrid model"?
[54:25] How do I homeschool a preschooler and still work 8 hours from home?
[56:07] What homeschool system do you recommend for non-English speakers?
[56:43] My spouse thinks socialization will suffer if we homeschool.
[58:22] I'm not a structured person and already struggle with routines...I fear it may be a little too much.
[59:55] What time are the Q&A sessions if I join Focus Time?
[1:01:02] What age should we start? I think my kids are too little.
[1:02:20] Do I need to homeschool, or is unschooling an option?
[1:03:30] Does homeschooling work between divorced parents?
[1:04:33] Would Focus Time help me decide if homeschooling is for me?
[1:05:13] How do you handle "demand avoidance"?
[1:08:06] My Mom is an elementary school teacher and talks about homeschoolers always being behind when they start school.
If you’re still unsure or are homeschool-curious, check out our course Focus Time. It will help you gain clarity and take a peek behind the curtain to see what it’s like to homeschool.
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Resources:
- Go here to get a pdf copy of the decision matrix.
- Join our course, Focus Time
- Need help convincing your spouse? Check out my free ebook 10 Zen Secrets Of Persuasion.