“I’m not a porn star, but I sell sex videos on OnlyFans.” (Jessamyn Stanley)

Jessamyn Stanley is one of a kind. For starters, she’s our first Real Stuff guest with an OnlyFans profile. And as we peel back the layers, you’ll learn how creating bold content within body-positive communities isn't just about pushing boundaries—it's about fostering essential dialogues. While Jessamyn and I may seem like polar opposites from the outside, through our conversation we found that we are incredibly similar when it comes to the way we think and the values we align ourselves with. Jessamyn is a social media powerhouse known for her daring choices, like sharing photos and videos of herself online doing naked yoga and performing sex acts on her OnlyFans. We venture into the world of liberal communities, questioning whether they merely create echo chambers or if they can engage a broader audience. Jessamyn opens up about handling polarizing topics and the inevitable backlash, focusing on understanding differing viewpoints rather than changing minds. The episode wraps up by touching on the complexities of polyamory, the therapeutic nature of rope play, and the financial dynamics of running a personal brand, all while maintaining a narrative grounded in radical honesty and self-acceptance. This is an episode that challenges, educates, and inspires, making it a must-listen for anyone interested in the intersections of body positivity, social media, and personal growth. Follow Jessamyn: https://www.instagram.com/mynameisjessamyn  Sponsors: Just Thrive: Go to Justthrivehealth.com and use promo code REALSTUFF for 20% off a 90-day bottle of Just Thrive Probiotic and Just Calm: https://justthrivehealth.com/discount/REALSTUFF  Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX   To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/Luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink  Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Real Stuff is a weekly podcast series hosted by Lucie Fink who has spent the past decade getting curious and creating engaging and educational content for an audience of millions. On this show, you won’t hear your favorite guests talk about things they typically share — rather, Lucie pulls them deep into some of the world’s most taboo topics, asking intensely personal questions about sex, money, and mental health, all in an effort to help you feel less alone as you navigate through the world. And the best part: we want to invite YOU onto the show. Apply to call in as an anonymous guest at luciefink.com/apply. Pop in your voyeuristic headphones, or call in and spill your secrets! Visit Lucie on Instagram (@luciebfink) and find the show across social media @therealstuffpod.