Solo Q&A: getting ready for baby girl, family finances and 2nd trimester updates

Now that I’m in my second trimester, it's time for another audience Q&A episode! I'm answering all of the questions that you sent through my IG stories box recently. Join me as I discuss the rollercoaster of our 20-week anatomy scan which unveiled that my baby's umbilical cord has one artery instead of two. Single umbilical artery (SUA) is, as I've learned, not as uncommon as they made it sound. While this discovery was scary at first, I offer comfort and insights for those facing similar prenatal concerns, highlighting how every pregnancy can bring its own set of unexpected turns. On a lighter topic, I share the creative process behind naming our baby, touching on why some beloved names didn't make the cut and the anticipation of a different postpartum experience in our suburban home. Balancing professional and family life with two children is a theme that resonates deeply in this episode. From deciding when to announce the pregnancy to contemplating a step back from work to prioritize family needs, I open up about the complexities and joys of transitioning from one child to two. Join me for a conversation that's as real as it gets, where we celebrate the joyous complexity of adding another heart to the family's beat! Sponsor: Songfinch: Go to songfinch.com/REALSTUFF and start your song – after you purchase, you’ll be prompted to add Spotify Streaming for your original song for FREE - a $50 value! 00:00:00 - 00:08:12 intro + 20-week anatomy scan 00:08:12 - 00:10:49 choosing a name 00:10:49 - 00:14:30 things I hope to do differently with baby #2 00:14:30 - 00:17:35 differences between my two pregnancies 00:17:35 - 00:19:34 does Milo know what's going on? 00:19:34 - 00:21:31 Songfinch 00:21:31 - 00:24:30 having enough time with Milo 00:24:30 - 00:25:55 hiring a baby nurse 00:25:55 - 00:30:09 breastfeeding tips & feeding plan for baby #2 00:30:09 - 00:31:22 when I started feeling baby moving 00:31:22 - 00:32:31 my energy level compared to first pregnancy 00:32:31 - 00:34:52 how I feel about giving birth 00:34:52 - 00:35:50 diet changes for high blood sugar 00:35:50 - 00:36:36 introducing Milo to his baby sister 00:36:36 - 00:38:58 cost of raising a child in the city 00:38:58 - 00:41:33 sibling age gaps 00:41:33 - 00:42:56 did this pregnancy affect how many children we want? 00:42:56 - 00:44:05 sciatica pain 00:44:05 - 00:45:32 announcing my pregnancy 00:45:32 - 00:49:53 fears about going from 1 to 2 kids 00:49:53 - 00:50:55 outro Watch this episode in video form on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLjmevEcbh5h5FEX0pazPEtN86t7eb2OgX   To apply to be a guest on the show, visit luciefink.com/apply and send us your story.  I also want to extend a special thank you to East Love for the show's theme song, Rolling Stone.  Follow the show on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therealstuffpod   Find Lucie here:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/luciebfink/   TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@luciebfink   YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/luciebfink   Website: https://luciefink.com/   Produced by Cloud10 and Clamor.   Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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The Real Stuff is a weekly podcast series hosted by Lucie Fink who has spent the past decade getting curious and creating engaging and educational content for an audience of millions. On this show, you won’t hear your favorite guests talk about things they typically share — rather, Lucie pulls them deep into some of the world’s most taboo topics, asking intensely personal questions about sex, money, and mental health, all in an effort to help you feel less alone as you navigate through the world. And the best part: we want to invite YOU onto the show. Apply to call in as an anonymous guest at luciefink.com/apply. Pop in your voyeuristic headphones, or call in and spill your secrets! Visit Lucie on Instagram (@luciebfink) and find the show across social media @therealstuffpod.