Part 1: Hugh Hefner w/ Crystal Hefner

This is part one of our two-part interview with Crystal Hefner. At just twenty-one years old, Crystal Harris’ life changed forever when she attended a party at the notorious Playboy mansion. Picked out of the crowd by Hugh Hefner, she became one of his infamous “girlfriends,” attending glamorous Hollywood parties and traveling the world. Yet this seemingly alluring lifestyle had a dark side. Hef controlled his girlfriends with strict rules regarding everything from their hair and makeup to their curfews, and Crystal was forced to compete with other women for her spot in the highly hierarchical system. Living at the mansion, she felt more like a fixture than a resident.   She quickly rose to the top, but being Hef’s number-one girlfriend came at the cost of Crystal’s identity outside her role in the Playboy universe. Her fate seemed sealed when Hef surprised her with a marriage proposal she could not imagine refusing. But as Crystal Hefner, she grew increasingly restless to understand who she truly was away from what she saw as Playboy’s toxic culture. In her new book ONLY SAY GOOD THINGS, Crystal offers a vulnerable and clear-eyed look at how her experience with Hugh Hefner catalyzed her transformative journey from someone who prized external validation over all else to a person who finally recognizes her true worth. This candid memoir provides a fascinating look behind the scenes at a powerful cultural icon and brand and an equally empowering perspective on hard-won lessons about who we allow to determine our value. Crystal’s Website https://crystalhefner.com/ Crystal’s IG https://www.instagram.com/crystalhefner/?hl=en Crystal’s Book https://amzn.to/48NKvCo Book Tour https://www.hachettebookgroup.com/articles/only-say-good-things-book-tour/ Survivor Squad Podcast links: https://linktr.ee/thesurvivorsqaud Terra’s links: https://linktr.ee/terranewell  Collier’s links: https://collierlandry.com/links It's important to consider seeking support from a licensed mental health professional or support group. Talking to a trusted friend/family member can also be beneficial in overcoming trauma and its aftermath.  •Psychology Today: https://www.psychologytoday.com/ •Trauma-Recovery.org: https://trauma-recovery.org/ •American Psychological Association: https://www.apa.org/ •National Institute of Mental Health: https://www.nimh.nih.gov/index.shtml •National SA Hotline 1-800-656-4673 https://www.rainn.org/ •National Domestic Violence Hotline 800-799-7233 https://www.thehotline.org/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Terra Newell, the girl who killed Dirty John in self-defense, and Collier Landry, the kid who put his father in prison for killing his mother, have come together to promote ethical true crime. In each episode, they create a space for a survivor to share - in their own words - what happened to them. This is a show where you'll get to know the survivor for the person they are outside of the news story. Our goal is to make the true crime space better for survivors. Welcome to The Survivor Squad! For more information: https://www.thesurvivorsquad.com Disclaimer: The views, thoughts, and opinions expressed are the guest's own and do not represent the views, thoughts, and opinions of the hosts. The material and information presented in this podcast are for general information and entertainment purposes only. The hosts are not legal professionals, mental health professionals, or doctors; opinions here should not be expressed or implied that they are a replacement for qualified legal advice and medical or mental health treatment.