#5 - You can’t beat death, but you can beat death in life: Mold Your Own Cookie Cutter Shape
Have you ever felt like you're a round peg trying to fit into a square hole? If you've grappled with this feeling of dissonance, then today's episode is a must-listen. Today, I'll be traversing the wilderness of the mind, shining a light on the shadowy corners where our inner enemies lurk.In this episode, I'll grapple with our 'animal soul/inner devil/negative self-talk/self-doubt', which keeps us shackled in comfort zones, ensnared by instant gratification, and locked in self-imposed constraints. I'll journey from the claustrophobic corners of lethargy, self-gratification, demoralization, and hurt feelings, towards the liberating landscapes of self-belief, discipline, resilience, and growth.Can you overcome your inner adversary, and, in doing so, inspire others to confront their own? Can you break the pre-existing molds and create your own unique 'cookie cutter' shape?Yes, molding your own shape requires energy, courage, and persistence, but the reward is an authentic life, lived in accordance with your true nature. Get ready to embrace the challenges, celebrate the victories, and most importantly, be inspired to do the same. This is your life and only you can shape it. Let's begin this journey of transformation!* Confronting the Inner Enemy - Unmasking Part X* Ever heard of Part X, the animal soul, inner voice, or the enemy within? Today, we dive deep into the labyrinth of our minds, confronting the prophet of impossibility and its manifestations - lethargy, self-gratification, demoralization, and hurt feelings. We'll talk about the fear of being different and the challenge of molding a unique 'cookie cutter' shape that doesn't just fit the standard mold, but rather, redefines it.* The Cost of Comfort - Stepping Out of the Zone* The comfort zone may be cozy, but its price is hefty. "The Comfort Zone is supposed to keep your life safe, but what it really does is keep your life small." Together, we'll explore how to step out of this zone, embracing life's endless possibilities and the vitality they bring, despite the accompanying pain. To help us on this journey, we'll turn to Alan Watts' enlightening concept of 'the real me'.* The Art of Self-Molding - Defying the Standard Mold* This segment takes a hard look at the efforts required to create our unique 'cookie cutter' shapes and the pitfalls of succumbing to the lure of instant gratification. We'll address the need for self-discipline, the danger of choosing the path of least resistance, and how not to fall victim to the 'animal soul'. Let's find out how this inner adversary can actually become an ally guiding us toward our authentic selves.* From Self-Growth to Inspiration - Shaping the World* Now that we've charted our own path, it's time to inspire others to do the same. Here, we'll grapple with the growing pains associated with transformation and learn how to see pain as a natural, even necessary part of growth. As we each mold our own unique shapes, we become beacons of light, guiding others on their own journeys of self-discovery.* The Promise - A Beacon of Light* Drawing inspiration from Charles Bukowski, we'll conclude our journey with a powerful message about beating death in life. As your ally in this journey of self-discovery and growth, I promise to stand by you. Together, we will shape our unique cookie-cutter figures, becoming the inspiration for others to do the same. Until our next adventure.Resources:* 🎨 Emilia Erfving Instagram: @emiliaerfving or www.emiliaerfving.com* 📚 The Tools by Phil Stutz* 📚 Quiet Leadership: Six Steps to Transforming Performance at Work by David Rock* 🎥 Stutz documentary* ❓ Four questions to deal with negative talk/thoughts by Byron Katie* 📰 F**k Passion, Dance With Life by Gerhard Molin* 🎵 Alan Watts - The Real You* “You can’t beat death butyou can beat death in life, sometimes.and the more often you learn to do it,the more light there will be.your life is your life.know it while you have it.” - Charles Bukowski This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.howtounreasonable.com