Episode 7: What are Normal Deal Breakers in a Relationship?

It's important that we all know ourselves well enough to know what are deal breakers for us--and what we consider workable behavior is, because treating deal breaker behavior like it's workable behavior is how (and one of the main reasons as to why) people stay in abusive relationships.  There is a difference between commitment and codependency. It's okay (and healthy) to not be dragged through hell by another person's behavior, and to get yourself to both a physical and emotional place where you can stay safe and sane. 

What are your deal breakers?  ...And what are your deal makers?

 

Do you have a question that you'd like my two cents on?  You can email me at: deardana@thriveafterabuse.com 

 To find out more or to get support: http://www.ThriveAfterAbuse.com

 

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Welcome to Thrive After Abuse, I’m your host Dana Morningstar. This is a podcast where we discuss everything related to narcissistic abuse, self-love, and healthy relationships so that you can find the healing and clarity you are looking for. We cover: The most common words, definitions, concepts, and questions surrounding narcissism, and narcissistic abuse, such as: • Flying monkeys • Hoovering • Narcissistic abuse • Love bombing • Trauma bonding • C-PTSD • Scapegoat • Reactive abuse • And dozens more Frequently asked questions about narcissists, such as: • What is the difference between a selfish jerk and a narcissist? • How do I know for sure if they are a narcissist? • Can a narcissist change? • Why do I miss them? • How can I stop attracting narcissists? • How do I handle all this intense anger I have towards them? And much, much more. If you are looking for more information or support, please visit my YouTube channel, books, audiobooks, and other resources—all of which you can find over at www.thriveafterabuse.com. Please know that you are not alone, you are not crazy, and you can move forward and heal from this.