101. How To Stop Arguing for Your Limitations

Are you arguing for your limitations? This week, Alexis is on the mic solo discussing a major mindset shift. Show Notes:(0:40) Being solutions-oriented is more worthwhile than dwelling on the negativity(1:55) Finding balance amidst uncertainty(2:40) Granting yourself grace is imperative(5:33) Argue for your opportunities, not your limitations(6:30) Using historical reflections as a vehicle for self-assurance(7:18) Avoid resorting to negativity as a coping mechanism(7:56) How self-doubt hinders your growth(8:36) Emphasize the positive instead of the negatives(9:04) Focusing on what could/does go wrong isn’t fruitful(9:36) Importance of getting out of your comfort zone(10:59) How to recognize and combat defeatist mindsets(12:39) Using positive framing to embrace all that lies on the horizon(13:23) You’ve come so far, and you’ve got to keep going(15:30) You are your biggest and best advocate Shop Too Collective with discount code PODCAST15 here: toocollective.comSubscribe to our Newsletter & Get Daily Affirmation Texts: toocollective.norby.liveFollow Too Collective on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/toocollective/?hl=enFollow Alexis on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexisbarber/?hl=enFollow Alexis on TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@alexisbarber_?lang=enSubscribe to Alexis on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC7-YnRrflV9g6nLMWUkwDtAThis show is part of the Spreaker Prime Network, if you are interested in advertising on this podcast, contact us at https://www.spreaker.com/show/5806440/advertisementAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe

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For smart and superficial girls everywhere, this podcast helps multifaceted women untangle society's expectations of them through candid conversations and tangible tips for crafting your own journey. Hosted by Alexis Barber, entrepreneur, creator and ex-YouTube and Google employee, you'll hear both the realities of being an ambitious 20-something that identifies as a #MaterialGirl and plenty of gems from our wide range of guests. Follow the show on Instagram and TikTok at @toocollective. toocollective.substack.com