151. How to deal with people who try to make you feel small
Join me for a raw and candid conversation as I unpack recent insults, dealing with haters in real life, and strategies for facing those who try to make you feel small.We're unraveling the layers of people-pleasing, and why it's crucial to protect your energy in a world full of energy vultures.Show Notes2:00 You can’t be everything and still be liked3:11 Protecting your energy as an ambitious person4:31 Avoiding relationships with insecure people5:32 Using accolades to remedy insecurities7:00 Feeling as though you have something to prove8:48 Understanding your subconscious lack of boundaries10:12 Discerning between people pleasing and genuine interest12:19 Chasing perfection never yields happiness13:22 Feel the pain that comes with someone neglecting your success, but don’t let it define you15:20 “If you don’t like me that’s fine…”16:22 It’s only embarrassing if you’re embarrassed17:24 Having the courage to be yourself19:22 On being Nice and Pretty20:31 Nice girls don’t win21:34 It’s important to be discerning with who you trust/share information with23:11 No one can make you feel inferior without your consentResources/Mentioned Westman Atelier Vital Skin Foundation StickFeatured Links:NEW Too Classic Terry Cloth RobeToo Collective WebsiteToo Collective Affirmation TextsFollow Too Collective on Social Media:InstagramFollow Alexis on Social Media:InstagramTikTokYouTubeAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit toocollective.substack.com/subscribe