Navigating Narcissism in Mediation - Natalie Baird King
This chapter focuses on the challenges of mediating cases that involve narcissistic individuals, particularly in the context of legal disputes. I share insights on the nature of narcissism, emphasizing the difficulty in getting narcissists to agree or see alternative viewpoints. I discuss strategies used to manage and settle disputes involving narcissists, such as valuing their contributions and giving them a sense of power through choices. The use of praise and strategic options is highlighted as effective in dealing with their black-and-white thinking. Additionally, I touch upon the logistics of mediation in my practice, including conducting sessions virtually via Zoom and in separate rooms to facilitate the process. (00:02) Mediation in Divorce Cases Natalie Baird King discusses the benefits of mediation over litigation in family law cases, emphasizing individual empowerment and tailored solutions. (11:13) Navigating Narcissism in Mediation - Managing disputes with narcissistic individuals in legal mediation, using strategies like valuing their contributions and giving them choices. (18:09) Gender Differences and Mediator Qualification Female narcissists use caretaking roles manipulatively in legal disputes, leveraging gender biases to their advantage. (21:59) Key Factors in Choosing a Mediator Select a competent family law mediator with deep understanding and experience, who actively engages parties and addresses emotional barriers.