Understanding High Conflict Divorces, Building Future - Lauren Hunt
Let's embark on a deeply compelling journey with Lauren, an attorney, mediator, and a beacon of hope for those ensnared in high-conflict divorces and custody battles. Coming from Upstate New York, Lauren brings a unique perspective, imbued with years of experience working with domestic violence victims, guiding us through the legal maze of divorces and custody situations. She offers wisdom on how to rise above immediate desires and aim for what the future holds. A future that might seem distant or hazy, but with her advice, is achievable. The second part of the discussion takes us through the tricky terrain of co-parenting relationships. We'll learn to navigate these often-challenging situations, focusing on what's within our control and keeping potential conflicts at bay with the Biff communication method. Lauren emphasizes on adopting independent strategies like communication coaching, and mediation, and only resorting to legal action when all else fails. We also address the all-too-real issue of 'abuse by litigation', discussing when it might be necessary to involve family courts. Prepare for a wealth of knowledge and practical insights in this episode. Chapter 1 Understanding High Conflict Divorces, Building Future00:01 This chapter of the Matt Phifer Experience podcast features host Matthew Phifer interviewing guest Lauren Hunt, an attorney and mediator from Upstate New York. They discuss Lauren's background and experience working with victims of domestic violence, as well as her approach to helping clients navigate high-conflict divorces and custody situations. Lauren emphasizes the importance of considering long-term goals and envisioning what one's life will look like in five or ten years, rather than just focusing on immediate desires. She also shares her advice for helping clients who may struggle with seeing a future for themselves due to past trauma. Overall, this chapter provides valuable insights into the legal and emotional aspects of divorce and custody battles. Chapter 2Navigating Difficult Relationships and Co-Parenting 13:24 This chapter explores the topic of navigating difficult co-parenting relationships. We discuss the importance of recognizing that the relationship will not be perfect and the need to focus on what one can control on their side. We emphasize the value of using the Biff communication method to avoid sparking conflicts. Setting realistic expectations and being flexible in communication and decision-making is also highlighted. We touch on the issue of abuse by litigation and when it may be necessary to involve the family court. We encourage trying independent strategies such as communication coaching and mediation before resorting to legal action. Overall, this chapter provides valuable insights and advice for those dealing with contentious co-parenting situations. https://laurenhuntesq.com/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/lauren-hunt-esq https://www.instagram.com/laurenhuntesq/ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/themattphiferexperience/support