When Twin Life Gets Easier: Surviving the Early Years and Finding Freedom After Toddlerhood

In this episode, we sit down with Lauren, one of the original Twiniversity voices and fellow twin mom, to talk about when life with twins actually starts to feel manageable. Lauren shares what those early years were like raising twin boys mostly solo while her husband worked long hours. She opens up about the constant pressure to do it all, the exhaustion of always being “on,” and the mental load that comes with being the default parent.Things started to shift once her boys began preschool and, eventually, full-day kindergarten. Lauren talks about how those small breaks made a big difference and how she celebrated her first real hour alone by getting her nose pierced, a moment that felt like taking back a little piece of herself.This is a real, honest conversation about the highs, the lows, and the slow but steady return to feeling like your own person again. If you’re in the thick of it, this episode is your reminder that it really does get easier.EPISODE THEMES 📝When twin life starts to feel easierLauren’s early parenting experience with twin boysThe reality of doing it all and feeling burned outGetting time back when kids start schoolCelebrating freedom with a nose piercingNavigating the mental load of default parentingFinding moments of identity outside of motherhoodEncouragement for parents still in the thick of it GIVEAWAYS 💰🎉 YOU'RE INVITED: Need more support, join us each month for our Twiniversity Virtual Meeting. Meet Nat and Lauren and bring them your biggest twin life challenges each month of the year. For dates and more details visit. www.twiniversity.com/Membership✔️Subscribe to the Twiniversity Email Newsletter! https://www.twiniversity.com/subscribe/Expecting twins? Twiniversity has you COVERED with online classes! ⬇️Breastfeeding Twins: https://twiniversity.mykajabi.com/offers/HTaVcGhH/checkoutTwins After Singletons: https://twiniversity.mykajabi.com/offers/hegrd8Ez/checkoutBaby Safety (CPR, First Aid, Car Seat Safety, Childproofing): https://twiniversity.mykajabi.com/offers/AccFMLk8/checkout CONNECT WITH LAUREN OAK 💌Links: https://www.laurenoakdoulaservices.com/CONNECT WITH US 🎙️Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/TwiniversityPinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/twiniversity/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Twiniversity/Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@twiniversityX: twitter.com/TwiniversitySpotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/60TDcDJoEtQHwqLzZ8L9rX?si=9734d507f23845e6Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/twiniversityEmail: community@twinuniversity.com

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