When You See Negative Traits In The Kids, Model The Behavior You Want To See
When we see our exex' negative traits showing up in the kids, it is a call for us to step up and model the behaviors we want the kids to embody. This is also true when we see our own past or present undesirable traits taking root in the kids. Or when we see negative traits that remind us of our parents or grandparents. The best way to influence kids’ behavior is through consistent modeling of the desired behavior. Shaming them that they are like so-and-so and cracking down on the behavior i...