10 | What To Do When Your Spouse Isn't On Board With Your New Habits Or Schedule: How to Get on the Same Page With Your Spouse

🎙️ Podcast Episode #10: What to Do When Your Spouse Isn’t on Board with Your New Habits or Schedule   Are you trying to create healthier routines or develop habits that bring peace to your family, but your spouse isn’t on the same page? When one partner starts making changes—whether it’s a new schedule, better habits, or setting new goals—resistance can arise. It’s frustrating, but it doesn’t have to derail your progress or your marriage.   In this episode, we’ll dive into how to approach a spouse who may not be on board with your new habits or expectations. You’ll learn how to communicate effectively, uncover what’s really behind their resistance, and create a balanced plan that works for both of you— while staying grounded in God’s wisdom and grace.   We’ll cover topics like:✅ How to open conversations without judgment✅ How to get on the same page with your spouse through reflective listening✅ Simple habits for marital happiness and compromise✅ Why some habits get couples stuck in a rut and how to break free✅ Leading with patience and self-sacrificial love I’ll also share a personal story of how I navigated similar challenges in my own marriage, from handling my spouse’s resistance to finding ways to grow together.   This episode is for you if: You feel like your spouse’s bad habits or resistance are sabotaging your efforts to improve your family. You’re tired of feeling like you’re not on the same page in your marriage or parenting. You want actionable tips to improve communication and cultivate a healthy, Christ-centered partnership.     💡 Don’t stop here—get the tools you need!Download our free Couples’ Communication Guide for Implementing Change. It’s packed with practical steps to help you and your spouse find common ground and grow closer. Click here to get your guide.   Work with me: Voxer Coaching (free) Free Coaching Call: Book Your Call Here     Listen for encouragement, real-life examples, and tips to foster unity as you and your spouse navigate changes—together.

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