35 | How Do I Bring Up Marriage Coaching Or Marriage Counseling Without Him Shutting Down? 4 Gentle Ways To Invite Your Husband Into A Season Of Marriage Growth

How to Get Your Husband on Board Without Pushing Him Away Are you craving support for your marriage—but your husband’s just not there yet? This episode is for every wife who’s feeling stuck, doing the work alone, and praying her husband will say yes to coaching, counseling, or support. ➡️ Inside this episode, I’ll show you how to invite your husband into the process without nagging, pressuring, or making him feel like the villain. You’ll learn: Why curiosity is your superpower (and how to use it biblically) The exact questions to ask that lower his defenses and open his heart What to say when you don’t agree with him but still want to stay connected How to share your growth without sounding preachy or pushy The secret to letting him see the fruit of your transformation How to reframe coaching as a tool—not a threat The spiritual mindset shift that will strengthen your faith and your marriage If you've been trying to carry this burden alone, take a deep breath. You don’t have to do it all perfectly—and you don’t have to wait for your husband to take the first step. ✨ You can honor your husband and still ask for help. 🎧 Tune in now and be encouraged, equipped, and reminded that your marriage is not stuck—it's just waiting for the right strategy and Spirit-led guidance.   Resources & Links Mentioned: Grab Our Free Guide For Wives Book a free coaching call with Micaiah Apply For The Deeply Connected Marriage Coaching Program     🙏 If this blessed you, please leave a 5⭐️ review!Screenshot and share it to your stories and tag me so we can spread the message to more Christian couples who need hope and help.

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Are you a Christian wife feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights and resentment in your marriage? Yeah, that was me too. Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage! I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all. Yet, as a young wife, I was still able to go from constant arguing, crying, and pain to thriving in my marriage. How? Well, this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage. To do that, connected Christian couples (aka the two people who make up a ”United Marriage”) need to know how to communicate.  In this podcast, I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together. → Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real issues that are keeping you feeling lonely, divided, and resentful in your marriage. And, we give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams. You know, the kind of marriage where you can’t wait to be with your spouse, and you both light up when you are in the same room! We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can grow yourself as a person, a wife, and make a real impact on your marriage.  Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach who helps Christian couples (especially Christian wives) communicate efficiently, so they can stop arguing and start falling in love with each other again. I am also a certified life coach through the Mind Firm Method by The Coach Firm! Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, biblical marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place. Here, we get practical about: ✅ How to communicate in your marriage ✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family ✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse ✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles ✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past ✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage ✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance ✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values ✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here. ➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]