37 | Is It Wrong To Feel Unhappy In A Christian Marriage? 3 Truths To Kill The Guilt Of Being Unhappy Or Needing Christian Marriage Help

Do you feel guilty for being unhappy in your marriage? Do you feel ashamed of the state of your marriage, and stuck in keeping it a secret? Are you searching for Christian marriage help? Thinking and praying about how to save your Christian marriage? Feeling stuck in your marriage? Maybe you have considered a Christian marriage coach, marriage help books, or podcasts on Christian marriage restoration.  You’re not alone! In this episode, I’ll walk you through how to overcome guilt and be radically honest about your needs without triggering a defensive shutdown from your spouse 🩵. Whether you're feeling distant or downright disappointed, there's a better way to speak up—and invite healing. 🌱 ✨ What You’ll Learn in This Episode: How to gently bring up hard things without starting an argument Why the phrase “we need to talk” shuts him down—and what to say instead A simple script for when you're feeling unseen, overwhelmed, or disappointed The power of speaking life over your husband (even when you're upset!) Why hiding your hurt doesn’t make you holy—and what God says about honesty A journaling prompt and prayer reflection to help you get real with God 🎧 Listen in now and learn: How to create honest, healing conversations in your marriage without guilt, blame, or manipulation. You don’t have to keep quiet—and you don’t have to go to war. Let’s talk about a better way 💬✝️ 🧠 Resources & Links Mentioned: Free Marriage Coaching Call Grab The Free Guide For Wives 🙏 Closing CTA:If this episode encouraged you, would you take a minute to leave a 5-star review and share it with a friend who needs it? 💌 Your words help other couples find the hope and help they’ve been praying for.

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Are you a Christian wife feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights and resentment in your marriage? Yeah, that was me too. Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage! I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all. Yet, as a young wife, I was still able to go from constant arguing, crying, and pain to thriving in my marriage. How? Well, this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage. To do that, connected Christian couples (aka the two people who make up a ”United Marriage”) need to know how to communicate.  In this podcast, I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together. → Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real issues that are keeping you feeling lonely, divided, and resentful in your marriage. And, we give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams. You know, the kind of marriage where you can’t wait to be with your spouse, and you both light up when you are in the same room! We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can grow yourself as a person, a wife, and make a real impact on your marriage.  Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach who helps Christian couples (especially Christian wives) communicate efficiently, so they can stop arguing and start falling in love with each other again. I am also a certified life coach through the Mind Firm Method by The Coach Firm! Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, biblical marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place. Here, we get practical about: ✅ How to communicate in your marriage ✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family ✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse ✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles ✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past ✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage ✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance ✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values ✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here. ➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]