49 | Should I Bring This Up to My Husband? Learning When to Speak and When to Let It Go And What Biblical Submission Means

Have you ever said something to your husband in the heat of the moment… and regretted it instantly? If so, you’re not alone. In today’s episode of the United Christian Marriage Podcast, Micaiah shares a simple, biblical process for knowing when to speak—and when to let things go. You’ll learn how to pause, pray, and process before you open your mouth so your words build bridges, not walls. This conversation will help you stop reacting out of emotion and start responding with love, respect, and discernment. It’s time to bring peace back into your marriage conversations and strengthen the bond between you and your husband—with Jesus right at the center. What you’ll learn in this episode: A “timed release” method for pausing before you speak 5 practical ways to process your thoughts with God before talking with your husband Key filtering questions to ask before starting a tough conversation Why biblical submission is not silence—but strength under control How to start a respectful conversation that builds unity instead of tension   Links mentioned in this episode: Join the United Christian Marriage Facebook Group Sign up for the 5-Day Marriage Communication Tiny Challenge Last Week To APPLY For An INTERNSHIP Position With Us   Relevant next episodes to binge: Joyful & Peaceful Wife Challenge 3 Steps To Be A Biblical Wife In A Modern Work: How To Be A Good Christian Wife Is It Normal That I'm Struggling To Submit? Godly Advice For Newlywed Christian Wives

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Are you a Christian wife feeling alone in your marriage? Struggling to communicate in your marriage? Feeling disconnected, or stuck in the same fights and resentment in your marriage? Yeah, that was me too. Marriage may feel hard right now, but it doesn’t have to stay that way. You may feel completely disconnected and withdrawn, but being UNITED is possible for your marriage! I was married at 18, after having a baby, and had no family support while I navigated it all. Yet, as a young wife, I was still able to go from constant arguing, crying, and pain to thriving in my marriage. How? Well, this podcast is all about the first step on the journey, which is unifying your marriage. To do that, connected Christian couples (aka the two people who make up a ”United Marriage”) need to know how to communicate.  In this podcast, I will walk you through the biblical design for marriage, teach you how to be a biblical wife, and bring my husband on occasionally so you can grab your husband and have a moment to be united as you listen to the show and grow together. → Welcome to The United Christian Marriage Podcast, where we teach you how to truly become ONE in your marriage. We talk about real issues that are keeping you feeling lonely, divided, and resentful in your marriage. And, we give you practical steps to overcome them so you can have the United Marriage of your dreams. You know, the kind of marriage where you can’t wait to be with your spouse, and you both light up when you are in the same room! We do this by teaching self-coaching (communication) tools, biblical wisdom, and our real-life experience on how you can grow yourself as a person, a wife, and make a real impact on your marriage.  Hi, I’m Micaiah, a Christian (trauma-informed) marriage coach who helps Christian couples (especially Christian wives) communicate efficiently, so they can stop arguing and start falling in love with each other again. I am also a certified life coach through the Mind Firm Method by The Coach Firm! Whether you’re asking “Is this normal?” or searching for marriage help, biblical marriage advice, or solutions for fighting with your spouse, you’re in the right place. Here, we get practical about: ✅ How to communicate in your marriage ✅ Setting boundaries that protect your marriage & family ✅ Navigating different ideas & expectations with your spouse ✅ Healing trauma & breaking generational cycles ✅ Strengthening your marriage while healing from the past ✅ Overcoming anxiety, technology addiction, and stress in marriage ✅ Restoring intimacy & reconnecting after seasons of distance ✅ Raising children who embody Christ-like values ✅ Biblical submission, serving your spouse, & God’s design for marriage If you’ve ever thought, “There has to be something better than this”—you’re right. You don’t have to figure this out alone. Healing starts here. ➡️ Join the conversation in the United Christian Marriage Facebook group: [https//bio.site/MicaiahGray]