Everybody Gets What They Need | How to respond when kids say "no fair"

This week, Layne and Jess reframe fairness into a more powerful concept: equity, ensuring everyone gets what they need. We offer practical scripts to explain this concept to your child, and discuss how to navigate those inevitable one-toy toddler meltdowns. This episode dives into: Why "no fair" complaints emerge around age 3 and how it relates to brain development Understanding the difference between fairness and equity Emphasizing that parents' needs matter too in family dynamics Guiding children through disappointment and unfulfilled wants Building resilience and empathy in kids by focusing on meeting diverse needs Communicating effectively with your co-parent about family needs Prioritizing needs based on your values and current circumstances Share your thoughts or ask a question - ⁠verygoodenoughpod@gmail.com⁠ Join ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Very Good Mothers Club⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ to be a part of our community and join our live monthly calls (4th Tuesday of every month): ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://verygoodmothersclubhouse.com/share/7ah7WID0giU77Bz0?utm_source=manual⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠! Book a 1:1 coaching session with Layne: https://www.enquiryco.com/coaching Find us on Instagram: Jess - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@jess_hover⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Layne - ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠@enquiryco

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Very good is a moving target, but we think you can be a very good (enough) parent if you love your kids and try hard. Join mother of three Jess Hover and preschool teacher Layne Deyling Cherland as we tackle how to understand toddler behavior from THEIR perspective, how to build a non-judgmental community of moms, how to repair our mistakes and have healthy relationships with our partners/kids/selves, plus so much more of what we call "people stuff". We take care of the people who take care of children - moms, dads and everyone else! From Very Good Mothers Club Theme by Conner Cherland