Episode 197: The Cost of People Pleasing

In this episode, we dive deep into the intricate dynamics of people-pleasing, a topic that arose during a recent bridal session with a bride in the thick of her wedding planning. As she experiences the overwhelming stress of preparations and the pressure to keep everyone happy, we reflect on the pervasive theme of people-pleasing and its profound effects on individual well-being and relationships.We explore the tangible costs of people-pleasing—resentment being a major one. When we silence our own needs in favor of accommodating others, we risk building bitterness that secretly undermines our connections. The initial sense of peace that comes from agreeing often masks deeper issues; relationships built on superficial harmony lack true intimacy.Ultimately, reclaiming our space and identity in relationships is a gradual but rewarding process. By engaging with our emotions and fostering a sense of safety within ourselves, we can become our own best advocates.What you’ll learn from this episode:The cost of people-pleasingShifting out of people-pleasingReclaiming your own voiceFeatured on the show:Follow me on Instagram to learn more about navigating your wedding with grace and ease: https://www.instagram.com/karaghassabeh/Check out **The Bridal Prep Academy:** https://karamaureen.comLet’s connect on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KaraMaureenBridalCoachingGet your copy of the book, **Whispers to a Bride:**https://www.amazon.com/Whispers-Bride-handle-stress-drama/dp/B0BCRXBQFN/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1UXWJVJOF3MNI&keywords=whispers+to+a+bride&qid=1662643892&sprefix=whispers+to+a+bride%2Caps%2C141&sr=8-1

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Welcome to Whispers to a Bride where we address the emotional aspects of getting married so you can navigate the stress and drama with grace and ease. This podcast talks about what it means to be a bride and how it impacts your identity and your closest relationships. You will learn how to prepare mentally and emotionally not only for your wedding day but for your married life as well. Kara Maureen is a Bridal Coach and Therapist who helps brides solve wedding drama with grace. Connect with Kara: On Instagram: @karaghassabeh Find out how to work with Kara at https://karamaureen.com