[MINDSET] Ep. 243 Eliminate Perfectionism w/Dr. Margaret Rutherford

Get your own copy of Ashley’s new book You Turn at youturnbook.com!   Where do you become perfectionistic?   This week, Ash sits down with Dr. Margaret Rutherford a psychotherapist, author, and podcast host to work through eliminating perfectionism and overcoming perfectly hidden depression.    If you have perfectionist tendencies, Margaret walks through where this behavior stems from, how to recognize this behavior and the tools to move out of perfection and back into living.   Dr. Margaret and Ash talk about the connection between perfection and trauma. This episode holds insight on brain spotting, EMDR, and other modalities people can turn to for support in releasing trauma.    Dr. Margaret shares what classic/clinical depression is and how to reverse this experience. Margaret defines depression as energy imploding inward. So, how do you get this energy to move up and out?…tune in to learn more!   In This Episode, You’ll Learn: The benefits of EMDR are to release trauma and move away from perfection related to trauma. 10 traits of perfectly hidden depression 5 stages of healing from depression Practices to step into a deeper level of self-acceptance   Where to Find Dr. Margaret Rutherford: SelfWork Podcast Perfectly Hidden Depression by Dr. Margaret Rutherford https://drmargaretrutherford.com/ Resources: Want an EMDR Certified Therapst? Contact Nicole Nowparvar nnowparvar@gmail.com   Here is something just for you to sleep more deeply, reduce stress and heal anxiety.    Visit ashleystahl.com/soul and use the code YOUTURN at checkout for 15% off your order!   SANEBOX    Tired of digging through your inbox to find the emails you actually want to read?   Sign up for Sanebox at https://www.sanebox.com/youturn It is time to feel sane when you open your mail!   Click on this exclusive link to automatically get a $25 credit applied to your account AND get a 14-day FREE trial.   Sick and tired of being sick or tired?    If you want to improve your sleep quality, try Magnesium Breakthrough, the only magnesium supplement I know of that contains 7 different forms of magnesium.    Visit www.magbreakthrough.com/youturn with code YOUTURN10 for a 10% discount on your order.

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Join our host Ashley Stahl each week for conversations with the world's top business, branding and psychology experts to help you amplify your success in work and life! As an international bestselling author and the CEO of Wise Whisper, an agency that's helped more than 100 clients craft their motivational speeches and land a spot on the stage of their dreams, Ashley pulls both mystical and practical information out of every guest that you can leave each episode with lasting tools to build your brand and career (whether in corporate or as an entrepreneur!). Ashley's book and show, both called YOU TURN, are devoted to helping you make meaningful "You Turns" in your life-- the choice to keep coming home to your truest self. When she's not podcasting, she's walking her german shepherd Jupiter, having snaccidents with funfetti cupcakes, or helping her clients at Wise Whisper Agency craft stories that captivate audiences, instill a sense of awe, and heal humanity. Stages Wise Whisper clients have been booked on include the World Business Executive Coaching Summit, C200, Small Business Explo, South By Southwest (SXSW), Monetize Your Expertise Summit, People 1st, Corporate World Intelligence, coaching.com, and TEDx. In fact, Wise Whisper's helped more than 100 clients specifically land their spot on the TEDx stage with nearly 100% success. If you're ready to become a professional speaker, land your spot on some of the world's biggest stages, and skyrocket your personal brand, connect. with Ashley's team at Wise Whisper Agency-- visit WiseWhisperAgency.com to learn more. Ashley's book and show, both called YOU TURN, are devoted to helping you make meaningful "You Turns" in your life, defined as critical moments of transformation when you become radically honest with yourself about some core area of your life that isn't working the way you want it to - and decide to finally make a transformation change. It's time to conquer your fears, up your confidence, and create the business or brand you envision...without taking life too seriously. If you are ready to become a professional speaker and skyrocket your personal brand, connect with Ashley's team at Wise Whisper Agency to get your signature talk written and booked on stage... Head over to WiseWhisperAgency.com/Speak THANK YOU to artist Andybemackin for the You Turn Podcast signature show music