#78 - the drama triangle that's disempowering your clients. [the victim-villain dynamic explained]
In this episode of the Deadly Sins podcast, Tayla Bubeck explores the concept of the Drama Triangle, a psychological model that illustrates the dysfunctional roles individuals play in conflict. She discusses how coaches often fall into the roles of hero, victim, and villain, leading to disempowerment for both themselves and their clients. Tayla emphasizes the importance of recognizing these roles, establishing boundaries, and shifting from a mindset of rescuing clients to empowering them. The episode concludes with strategies for avoiding the Drama Triangle and fostering a more productive coaching dynamic. ---- Takeaways The Drama Triangle illustrates dysfunctional roles in conflict. Coaches often fall into the hero role, disempowering clients. Empowering clients means guiding them to find their own solutions. Victimhood is a choice; clients must take responsibility for their growth. Self-sabotage can manifest in both clients and coaches. Establishing boundaries is crucial for effective coaching. The Empowerment Triangle promotes growth and accountability. Compassion should not lead to codependency in coaching relationships. The internal state reflects in external relationships. Action is necessary to implement the insights gained. ---